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Betrayed

I found out a few months ago after I had our first child together that my husband had an affair with someone that he had been involved with in the past. As if to add insult to injury, the affair resulted in a child who is now almost three years old. I am reeling from all of this and many of the emotions that you have described I have experienced. At this point I don't know if we are going to make it. I have chosen to forgive him but remain insecure about the ongoing contact that he has with his paramour because of the child that they share. I know that I can't get through this on my own and ask for prayer. I also wanted to write about my experience her because I have not seen anyone address how you get through it when the betrayer cannot sever all contact with the person because of a child involved. Any resources that you have come across that will help me are appreciated

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