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 Posted: Fri Sep 2nd, 2011 01:35 pm
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Way to go, LadyP!  That is great news!

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 Posted: Fri Sep 2nd, 2011 07:07 pm
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That's wonderful news, Need2BFree!!!!!

I really feel better now that I'm not eating flour or sugar and exercising. It takes a while to reach the point where you FEEL and SEE results, but once you do, it becomes a self-perpetuating process.

Good for you!!!! Please keep us posted on your progress.....even little steps! Let's celebrate!

Kaizen! (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kaizen ) Tiny steps forward every day!!!!!

My best, DW



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 Posted: Sat Sep 3rd, 2011 04:54 am
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Thanks DW!!!,
Yes! Thosesimple sugars take their toll on us, i need to follow your lead and exercise, taking those baby steps feel great!
Have a great weekend everyone! Take care of you. , :)
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 Posted: Wed Sep 7th, 2011 07:47 pm
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I just presented step 1 in the 12-step guide for wives of intimacy anorexics (Married and alone) to my wives of intimacy anorexia group.

This was an emotionally exhausting experience, but increased my self-awareness tremendously. I think I was able to identify and write about the salt and pepper shakers because I was doing this step work.

It's like a window has been opened into my memories and self-awareness.

This is really important ladies. Please find a group where you feel you fit. I definitely did not fit in the wives of sex addicts group, as I did not know about my husband's sexual addiction. I feel I fit in the wives of intimacy anorexics group because I definitely knew something was wrong, I hauled him to marriage counseling, but I tolerated it. I never should have tolerated it. I can admit that I have a problem and I never should have tolerated the way he treated/treats me. Never.



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