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Posted: Tue Sep 23rd, 2008 09:52 am |
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John John. Do you know that it works? How have you experienced it in your own life? What kind of changes have you seen in your own life when using this method?
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Posted: Fri Oct 10th, 2008 01:37 am |
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I suggest you strengthen your faith in God. Your loneliness may indeed be the cause for you resorting to p and m. I find it hard to believe that you may not have many friends since you mention being "lonely". If you do, of which im pretty sure, then spend some time with them. Do some healthy activities like a workout. Keep yourself occupied with something good that will keep your mind off this junk. Trust me, I have never been "touched" in my life, yet, all thanks to God, I now have the will power to shun p and m as evil. Yes, I feel lonely at times, so I make myself occupied with stuff like reading books or playing some video games or hang out with my friends. I suggest you get rid of p and m from your life.
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Posted: Sat Oct 11th, 2008 11:39 pm |
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The headline of this thread is "Bodily sexual reactions". Wonder how to deal with that i.e. when dancing and having contact/ being connected?
Is it possible to be pure in mind all the same?
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Posted: Mon Oct 27th, 2008 12:16 am |
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I experience some different things it seems when doing different things. When trying not to have self-sex, I feel that I am reacting different than before on some things. I am not really sure about this, but it seems to me that my body reacts sexual when I am in contact, i.e. talking with some some people, but it doesn't react equal to all and I don't know what it is, just observe that it reacts different... It can i.e. be customer-contact during the work-time... It can just be interesting to observe. It seems to be something new...
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Posted: Fri Nov 14th, 2008 12:46 am |
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Eye-contact with young women can make my body react sexually.
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Posted: Fri Nov 14th, 2008 12:56 am |
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And my body can react sexually by only seing some persons in the side-sight. If there comes a human being in the side-sight that I can hardly see, that might be enough to make my body react. I don't know if there is chemistry, connection, vibrations, smell.. clothes, dressing..
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Posted: Fri Nov 14th, 2008 12:58 am |
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And another thing: When being quite close to someone, my body reacts... but it might not be with everybody..
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Posted: Fri Nov 14th, 2008 10:15 pm |
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Wonder how to deal with sexual feelings? Pretend they are not there? Try to get as little as possible? Just register? Be an observer? Enjoy that they are there...? Be curious? Try to get to know them. What is it?
Is there a difference between being in love and feeling sexual feelings?
I don't know.
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Posted: Sat Nov 15th, 2008 01:29 pm |
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Hi Man,
Some languages, such as ancient Greek, are more specific with their words about love. Sexual feeling/attraction are likely to be present in some form in all facets of a relationship, from initial meeting/interest, to attraction/infatuation, to the deep committed love that sustains a marriage. The mere presence of sexual feelings, however, does not in any way indicate that that mature, committed love is present.
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Posted: Sat Nov 15th, 2008 10:42 pm |
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Hi. I guess that love is a choice, not feelings?
but feelings are to be dealt with...
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Posted: Sat Nov 15th, 2008 11:44 pm |
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Hi Man,
I can only speak of love from my personal experience, and perhaps some from observation of others, or reading of their experiences.
Over 25 years of marriage I have found that the heart-fluttery, skin-tingling feelings have settled in to a deep sense of contentment and peace. If I had the expectation of maintaining that physical/emotional high, I would have concluded some time ago that love was no longer present and moved on.
I love the passage in 1 Cor. 13:4-7 which speaks of God-like love in terms of how we choose to treat each other. I have much work to do in that regard, as it is a life-long process of practice and growth.
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Posted: Sun Nov 16th, 2008 03:29 pm |
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Yeah, I think I have heard this before that things will not be so intense anymore after a while, but it might be good to get it repeated and maybe kindo getting prepared for an eventual marriage.
I am single man.
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Posted: Wed Nov 19th, 2008 09:56 pm |
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It happens again and again that I can feel feelings that are sexual in contact with other people, eye-contact or just being around, and I don't know how to deal with it... enjoy it, be happy..?
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Posted: Sun Nov 23rd, 2008 10:25 pm |
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| I.e. looking into a womans eyes can make the body react, and I don't know if that is okay or not, if it is acting out or if it is a sign that there is life, that I am alive and that I should enjoy that feeling and observe it and feel it or kindo threat the young women as sisters in purity and kindo get away?
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Posted: Mon Nov 24th, 2008 01:37 pm |
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The reacting of the body is generally outside of our control. What is within our control is how we react to its reaction.
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Posted: Mon Nov 24th, 2008 10:53 pm |
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Maybe, and I wonder if God, if He exists, want me to flee all situations where the body reacts in a sexual way? Sometimes it might be difficult, if I am in a job-situation or or or.. There can be a lot of situations that I might need to flee then..
Is it not okay to enjoy those feelings? How to deal with them? Should they be supressed? I guess not? Observe them? Feel them? Enjoy them? Get to know them? Can they learn me something?
Maybe someone says: "Go to Jesus with them.", then I will say: How do you do that?
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Posted: Fri Nov 28th, 2008 12:50 am |
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Difficult or strange or new for me: That my body reacts so much when meeting women outside everywhere.. I am not sure if it is a choice or not or the best thing to do.? If I should flee from all this, then I might flee from life.?
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Posted: Fri Dec 12th, 2008 01:39 am |
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Sexual feelings seem to come very fast when being out with other people, just being out on the tube, on the bus. I guess my body reacts a little bit different on different people..
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Posted: Sat Dec 20th, 2008 11:24 pm |
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Walking down the street: That might be a huge "acting out". Thanks
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Posted: Sun Dec 21st, 2008 10:04 pm |
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Trying to drop m and then washing penis at showering is quite challenging. I am kindo looking forward to it, hoping that I can get something, some release. Donno if this is cheating on myself; that I am not honest; cheating on myself or or or..
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