Is there any sure way to block porn from a computer or iphone?
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 Posted: Thu Aug 20th, 2009 10:19 pm
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Is there any sure way to block porn from a computer or iphone?  I don't have a computer at home but I would like to get one except I can not trust myself.  Hasn't someone invented a way to block it from a home computer?  I also had to give my iphone away because it has access to the internet and I didn't want to be tempted.  Is there anything that could block porn from an iphone?

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 Posted: Fri Aug 21st, 2009 12:25 am
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SafeEyes has a version for the iPhone and the PC.

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 Posted: Fri Aug 21st, 2009 01:32 am
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I just want to say I really applaude you getting rid of the things that you know will be a stumbling block to your recovery!  :)



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 Posted: Fri Aug 21st, 2009 02:51 am
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I haven't used blockers for many years, but my sense is that no blocker is, as you say, "sure". A determined person can get around anything. So while software solutions can be useful tools in accountability and in slowing one down, they are only adjuncts to inner change.

I keep coming back to the alcoholics and drug addicts who get sober without any blockers. Whether we use blockers or not, I think we have to emulate their recovery as we seek for our own.

Just my uninformed humble opinion, of course.

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 Posted: Fri Aug 21st, 2009 03:29 am
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Hi Acceptance,

Filters are only effective if you have someone you trust to administer them for you and safeguard the password.

As Tim pointed out, they are mostly a stop-gap measure during toddling steps of freedom.

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 Posted: Fri Aug 21st, 2009 11:42 am
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While I understand the sentiments expressed in the previous posts, filters indeed don't really fix anything, they can be an important front-line tool in recovery.

I just don't want Acceptance to feel discouraged from getting a filter. I never poo-poo them for that reason.

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 Posted: Fri Aug 21st, 2009 12:06 pm
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I agree. My only quibble was with the phrase "sure way to block porn", which seemed to ask for a level of performance from filters that would let us quit there. I think that's more than any technical tool can offer us.

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 Posted: Fri Aug 21st, 2009 12:09 pm
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Yeah, I agree with you there TM2.


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