I am new here and so is my husband (you'll probably get to hear his story in a little while). We've been struggling with P & M addiction for a while, he longer than I. I hope that by joining this community and reading and receiving support from you guys we can make it through this and help our children also. We are about to meet with our church pastor for the first time regarding this issue and are just trying everything we can at this point to try and rebuild trust and our marriage.