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KevinesKay
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Posted: Mon Dec 14th, 2009 12:27 pm |
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My wife and I recently joined the choir and she met a woman who was going through
a nasty divorce. She dressed somewhat provocative and I could tell that she had
some emotional issues.
My wife, however, seriously felt threatened by her. She noticed how this woman really
felt charged by any attention from me. She would try to walk over to talk to me and
try to make eye contact with me. My wife literally had to stand between her to keep her
away from me. The only option for me was to ignore her and not look at her.
My wife was right to feel threatened. I could tell from her and the other women's
reactions that this lady was acting inappropriately towards other men in our church.
It was a sad sight to see. I've had a handful of experiences with women of this type,
and I know there is nothing I can do or say to help them. Any attempt for me to reach
out to them is just a source of attention to them. That's what love addiction is. This
woman is like many that get the same high from "love" and attention as I get from
seeing pornography.
Being an emotional and social anorexic makes it more difficult for me to recognize these
situations before I get myself into them. I'm glad my wife was there to warn me
of her. Making healthy choices with regards to others around you is really a challenge,
even in church.
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a4givn1
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Posted: Sat Feb 6th, 2010 12:23 pm |
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I understand.. sounds like the girl has been doing this to alot of people.
I would surely take it to the pastor or other leader.
If nothing happens find somewhere safe where your going to be treated with
respect..
Bibical method is by turning up volume to her 1 person 2 persons etc..
kind of like a what they call it a intervention ya..
any way she needs that kind of love and you need safety..
2 cents worth take or leave it..
John K.
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