The Wife’s Heart

The Wife’s Heart

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Price for paperback, shipped from our office in Italy to the European Community and the UK: S14.95
Available in English and Italian. The above price does not include postage. Postage rates from Italy to the European Community and the UK: $10.00 for 8-9 day delivery, $19.50 for 3-4 day delivery.

Dimensions: 8-1/2 x 5-1/2 x .600
Net Weight: 11 ounces
Paperback: 203 Pages
Publisher: Blazing Grace Publishing
Published: Jan 2017
ISBN–13: 978-0-9787756-7-4
ISBN–10: 0-9787756-7-8
Printed in USA


About the Book

“My husband is addicted to porn; I’m hurting, and feel so alone.”

When a wife discovers her husband has committed adultery or is addicted to pornography, her world is rocked. Does she really know her husband? Why did he lie to her? How does she cope with her pain and anger, rebuild trust, restore the marriage, and heal?

The Wife’s Heart answers these questions and more

Topics include:

  • Understanding your husband.
  • What to do if he refuses to get help, or keeps falling.
  • The 8 elements of rebuilding trust.
  • Coping with triggers such as fear, anger, and insecurity.
  • Embracing your incredible value as a wife and daughter of Christ.
  • Forgiveness
  • Healing your heart
  • And much more.

Read Chapter 8 from The Wife’s Heart: Triggers, Triggers, Everywhere

Table of Contents:

  1. When Your World Comes Undone
  2. Who Is He?
  3. Who Are You?
  4. You and God
  5. Who Should I Tell?
  6. Two + Three
  7. Boundaries, Consequences, and Control
  8. Triggers, Triggers, Everywhere
  9. You Are Jael
  10. Coping the Right Way
  11. The Eight Elements of Rebuilding Trust
  12. How You Can Help Him
  13. What Has Been Exposed?
  14. Lies, the Truth, and Healing
  15. The If, When, and Why of Forgiving Your Husband
  16. A Story of Healing
  17. Drawing Near
  18. God Shines through the Cracks

Bonus Material

  • The Unwanted Chapter
  • Lies and Truth (Supplement to Chapter 14)
  • Finding Your Best Friend

Reviews of The Wife’s Heart

  • I was angry, and felt alone… like no one understood how crazy I was. My friend shared The Wife’s Heart with me and it was a Godsend. This book knew what I was feeling and thinking; it gave words for the swirling thoughts in my head. The Wife’s Heart helped me stop enabling my husband and to fully know who I am in Christ, and helped me let go of the shame so I could walk in His truth, humbly. I am grateful God inspired Mike to write this book; it played a major role in saving my life and marriage.

  • I have been reading The Wife’s Heart this morning.  Chapter 14 reminded me that the unresolved issues from my past explain why, after learning about my husband’s problem, it sent me into an awful downward spiral.  I feel as if my husband and I need to face these emotions together.

  • ~The Wife’s Heart has been really good and helpful with tangible action steps. So far, I have done everything the book states not to do. I’m glad that I see this now and realize I have a lot of work to do. I’m really enjoying my reading.

  • I am already halfway through The Wife’s Heart and intend on finishing it before I go to sleep- it’s got such a great flow to it and I love your no-nonsense, God-fearing approach. Thank you for repeating things throughout your book that wives of a porn-addicted spouse so desperately need to know, understand, and believe.

  • Chapter 9 on Jael in The Wife’s Heart is POWERFUL!  I realized that I was like Jael when I called “the other woman” who had claimed to be my friend over the last two years. I called her out on her lies and took a stand that she is to never contact us again. My husband was so relieved that I did that because she still had power over him and us because of his lack of confession. We need to slay the dragon at times and take action, ladies! Don’t be a victim, we have a list of arsenals that we can take up to defeat the enemy! And we have a great God who can fight the battle for us!

  • There is so much in The Wifes Heart that I have had to reread chapters… I am on chapter 5 and have reread it twice and plan to go through it again. Even with the pen, highlighter and post-it notes, I can’t take it all in.

  • I just love the way Mike writes and speaks; direct and to the point and to my heart. It’s so comforting and reassuring to hear that someone understands and I am not a crazy woman over this mess, especially coming from a man. I am soooooooo encouraged! It’s so incredibly refreshing to have a man/men call out another man/men on their unholy and inexcusable behavior. Really can’t wait to see what the Lord is going to do, not just with our marriage, but all of our circumstances.

  • Oh my goodness, talk about a lot to process.. I’m devouring every word…  I’m on chapter 9… I had to slow down.. I’m emotionally exhausted today after reading so much! The Wife’s Heart is definitely an amazing book! Its direct… black and white… which is good in this situation! Their is no doubt about it… this book speaks to us broken-hearted wives!