We’re holding a one day conference on freedom and healing from porn and adultery for men and women on Saturday, August 4 here in Colorado Springs. I’ll be sharing the following with those who attend, in straight forward terms: * How porn and adultery affect Read More
Here is our new video on masturbation. This is a topic that’s addressed less by the church than porn, yet self-sex often if not always accompanies porn use. (If 65% of Christian men are viewing porn as the surveys say, then just as many are Read More
There are several ministries to persons who struggle with porn that advocate waiting until the husband has six months of abstinence from porn before telling his wife. I disagree with that approach, for these reasons. Lying and hiding are always woven into the character of Read More
All the lonely people Where do they all come from? All the lonely people Where do they all belong? From the song “Eleanor Rigby,” The Beatles “It is not good for the man to be alone…” God—Genesis 2:18 “I have no one to talk to.” Read More
We’ve been offering an eight week nationwide phone course for men for freedom from porn and other forms of sexual sin for several years. We’ve seen phenomenal growth and change in the guys who jump in with both feet. At the same time, we’ve had Read More
The Next Wife’s Heart Retreat: June 28-30, 2024 A time of healing and restoration for wives who are recovering from their spouse’s porn or adultery. The Wife’s Heart Retreat is held in the mountains of Beulah, Colorado, in a pristine, secluded setting where you can Read More
This is a picture of me in 1997. The night before, I had gone on a porn binge. Look at my eyes: I have a vacant stare, it’s as if nobody is home. There’s no life behind those eyes. This picture shows the effects Read More
“Wives, submit to your husbands…” Ephesians 5:22 stirs up controversy, doesn’t it? “Submit” is a verse that is dangerous when taken out of context; it can be used to attempt to bludgeon, bully, or manipulate the wife into accepting behavior which should never be tolerated, Read More
December and January are typically our busiest months, and this year is no exception. I don’t have a definitive answer as to why the Christmas season brings out more people looking for help, other than a guess that the pain of having to fake it Read More
For those who are hurting, especially this time of the year, this video is for you. I share a little about my first Christmas after exposing my adultery and porn addiction to my wife, replacing the “why” questions with “what?”, and finding peace, rest, and Read More