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Published on February 2, 2018 in Freedom from Porn & Sex Addiction by Mike Genung

  This is a picture of me in 1997. The night before, I had gone on a porn binge. Look at my eyes: I have a vacant stare, it’s as if nobody is home. There’s no life behind those eyes. This picture shows the effects Read More

Published on January 24, 2018 in Wives by Mike Genung

“Wives, submit to your husbands…” Ephesians 5:22 stirs up controversy, doesn’t it? “Submit” is a verse that is dangerous when taken out of context; it can be used to attempt to bludgeon, bully, or manipulate the wife into accepting behavior which should never be tolerated, Read More

Published on January 19, 2018 in Blazing Grace by Mike Genung

December and January are typically our busiest months, and this year is no exception. I don’t have a definitive answer as to why the Christmas season brings out more people looking for help, other than a guess that the pain of having to fake it Read More

Published on December 21, 2017 in Christian Life by Mike Genung

For those who are hurting, especially this time of the year, this video is for you. I share a little about my first Christmas after exposing my adultery and porn addiction to my wife, replacing the “why” questions with “what?”, and finding peace, rest, and Read More

Published on November 30, 2017 in Wives by Mike Genung

by Mike Genung 10 years ago, I was given a poster with the images of 3 players of the Los Angeles Lakers, all who played in different decades. Under their pictures are the records of losing seasons: 36-43, 40-42, and 34-48, with the words “They Read More

Published on November 21, 2017 in Wives by Mike Genung

Years ago, my wife Michelle wrote a letter to me describing how my sexual sin had affected her. This letter is shown in my book The Wife’s Heart, Healing from Your Husband’s Porn and Adultery; we’ve received quite a bit of feedback that Michelle’s letter Read More

Published on October 26, 2017 in Wives by Mike Genung

February of this year, I released The Wife’s Heart; Healing from Your Husband’s Porn and Adultery, and it immediately became the top seller for my books. 70% of the emails we receive are from hurting wives, yet there are fewer resources for wives than for Read More

Published on October 11, 2017 in Freedom from Porn & Sex Addiction by Mike Genung

by Mike Genung This year we’ve been getting contacted from more pastors and pastor’s wives than usual. Many of the pastor’s wives who contact us have similar stories and questions as wives who are not married to pastors… “My husband is addicted to porn, but Read More

Published on October 5, 2017 in Wives by Mike Genung

The following is from Chapter 9 of Mike Genung’s book, The Wife’s Heart, Healing from Your Husband’s Porn and Adultery: You Are Jael Now Sisera fled away on foot to the tent of Jael the wife of Heber the Kenite, for there was peace between Read More

Published on September 18, 2017 in Freedom from Porn & Sex Addiction by Mike Genung

by Mike Genung   …for He Himself has said, “I will never desert you, nor will I ever forsake you,” Hebrews 13:5   Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double–minded. Read More